“In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.”
Proverbs 16:9
I am a planner by nature. I like knowing where I'm going, having a map, understanding the timeline. But life—and God—rarely follow my carefully crafted plans.
Some of the most significant experiences of my life have come through detours. The job I didn't get that led to a better opportunity. The relationship that ended and opened space for deeper growth. The trip that went wrong and became a story I still tell.
This verse reminds me that my planning is not wrong, but it is not final. I can chart my course with wisdom and intention, but God reserves the right to redirect my steps.
The detours used to frustrate me. Now I've learned to look for God in them. Because if He is truly sovereign, then the detour is not a mistake—it's part of the plan I could never have designed myself.
Maybe the detour is protecting you from something you can't see. Maybe it's preparing you for something you can't imagine. Maybe it's the very path that leads to the destination, just not the way you expected to get there.
Today I surrender my death grip on my own plans. I hold them loosely, trusting that the One who establishes my steps sees the whole picture when I only see the next turn.
A Prayer
Lord, I release my need to control every outcome. Help me to trust You in the detours, to look for Your hand when plans change. I believe You are working all things together for my good. Amen.
Stay close to the journey.
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